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CHINESE YES doesn’t mean yes, but more like “I heard what you say, keep going until something else suits me better.” This is very confusing for those who always assume that “yes” means “I agree”. ✔️In China, being asked about something shows that one is trusted. People feel therefore honored to get involved and want …
At 37, my cousin is what is called a « BARE BRANCH » – single, unmarried. This label is used to designate men who do not marry and therefore do not add « branches » to the family tree. China has far more men than women. Over the next 30 years, up to 30 million men of marriage age …
On a hot summer night, at a local bar in Beijing, two foreign men encountered a critical incident. They wanted to have beer. One of them therefore went to see the barman, and made a number gesture by holding up his thumb and the index finger. The barman nodded his head. Several minutes later, 8 …
Paying for dinner in China can be a harrowing experience for Westerners, involving yelling, pushing or wrestling if necessary. While Westerners usually go Dutch, Chinese treat each other to meals. No matter the occasion (family or business dinners), bill fights are usually loud, amusing and physical. Last time when I got to fight, my bracelet …
The term Guan Xi could sound pejorative and is often linked with utilitarianism and nepotism. In some countries, relationship is built on proximity, affection. In China, relationship is built primarily on reciprocity (Guan Xi). It is a bond of interest: give-and-receive, trade-and-debt… A puts B in debt by giving B something. B then tries to …
Never offer Chinese men green hats as a gift. The expression “wearing a green hat” means your wife is cheating on you. It’s humiliating and a huge culture taboo. It is said that in Yuan dynasty (13th–14th century), the relatives of prostitutes were forced to wear green hats. Another color myth is YELLOW, associated with …
FILIAL PIETY : If you have parents who are over 60, it’s illegal to not visit them regularly. This is definitely one of the most interesting China facts. In 2013, a law was introduced to allow for the elderly to sue their children, if they fail to meet their parents’ financial and spiritual needs. In …
Why do the Chinese rarely raise questions during a meeting? Deeply rooted in Chinese society is the need to belong and conform to a unit, whether the family or an organization. By keeping silent, Chinese try not only to save their own faces, but also the faces of others. In a meeting, there are 3 …
When you talk about privacy to Chinese, a common reaction you get is: “What privacy?” For many traditional Chinese families, privacy is an alien concept. Whenever I wanted to have some time alone and closed my bedroom door, my mother would ask: “Do you have something to hide? ” In Chinese hospitals, the lack of …
Many foreigners have lived the embarrassing experience when entering an elevator in China: “Hi, good morning”, you greet those already inside as you normally do in your own country. But very often, the Chinese stay impassive and simply ignore you … … After years in Paris, I begin to tell “bonjour (hello)” to every single …
