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IN AN ELEVATOR

Many foreigners have lived the embarrassing experience when entering an elevator in China: “Hi, good morning”, you greet those already inside as you normally do in your own country. But very often, the Chinese stay impassive and simply ignore you … … After years in Paris, I begin to tell “bonjour (hello)” to every single …

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IN A TRAIN

Many foreigners were caught off guard by the water dispenser while riding the rails in China. Instead of the usual options for cold and room temperature water, the machine had only one button for “BOILING HOT WATER”. It is so different from the US, where we find ice-cube dispensers almost on each hotel floor. Chinese …

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IN A PARK

Go to any park in China, you will cross elderly Chinese walking backwards. Why ? There is an old belief that walking backwards for 100 steps is equal to walking forwards for 1000 steps. According to traditional medicine, backward walking exercises muscles that are not used in ordinary walking. It’s more tiring, therefore it gives …

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IN A RESTAURANT

In Beijing, I use chopsticks for everything. In Paris, I am still trying not to make mistakes 😊 https://www.linkedin.com/posts/luxuefei_china-linkedin-chinese-activity-6678944066635411456-cGmL  

IN A SHOP

My clients from the luxury industry are perplexed by certain behaviors from Chinese tourists. For example, they rarely respond to your greetings, and seem not at all interested in the brand’s story and its aspirations (that shop vendors are trained to tell). Instead, they just show you the product model on their smartphone, “I want …

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NAMES

What is the rule of Chinese names? If one day you happen to run out of topics with your Chinese partner at a dinner table, ask him the meaning of his name. It’s a quick and natural way to break ice and establish relationship. 1. Surname comes before given name. 2. Each given name has …

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ROUNDNESS

Why do the Chinese prefer round dining tables?  A round table allows everybody to see everybody and everybody to be seen, without differentiation. But it does not mean that seating is egalitarian. The most important people (VIP) are seated facing the entrance, and the least important sit with their backs to the door. The legend: …

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RECIPROCITY

Reciprocity is a key Chinese concept. It’s automatic, compulsory and omnipresent in all aspects of Chinese society. I have a French teenager son. He wanted to offer a gift to his mentor by the end of an internship. I suggested him to do it before the assessment. “Why?”, he asked. “To make your mentor happy …

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FACE

People of most cultures want to protect their face. Few like to be embarrassed or criticized in public. But why are we only talking about the Chinese face? The answer lies in the unique dimension that the Chinese give to the concept: GIVE FACE to others. Westerners are often destabilized by the lack of questions …

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